Hetero- vs gaysex

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"I call myself a faghag because sex with men outside the context of the gay community doesn´t interest me at all. In a funny way, when two gay people of opposite sexes make it, it´s still gay sex. No heterosexual couple brings the same experiences and attitudes to bed that we do. These generalizations aren´t perfectly true, but more often than straight sex, gay sex assumes that the use of hands or the mouth is as important as genital-to-genital contact. Penetration is not assumed to be the only goal of a sexual encounter. When penetration does happen, dildos and fingers are as acceptable as (maybe even preferable to) cocks. During gay sex, more often than during straight sex, people think about things like lubrication and "fit". There´s no such thing as "foreplay". There´s good sex, which includes lots of touching, and there´s bad sex, which is nonsensual. Sex roles are more flexible, so nobody is automatically on the top or on the bottom. There´s no stigma attachted to masturbation, and gay people are much more accepting of porn, fantasies and fetishes. And, most importantly, there is no intention to "cure" anybody. I know that a gay man who has sex with me is making an exception and that he´s still gay after we come and clean up. In return I can make an exception for him because I know he isn´t trying to convert me to heterosexuality."
(Pat Califia, numera FTM, var vid tidpunkten denna text skrevs butchdaddy s/m-flata)

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